Negotiations and Consent, why do we need them?
The best way I can explain the importance of negotiations and their impact on consent, is to give sample scenarios. All scenarios are...


Take A Stand For Those Who Can't
Image Copywrite DanielLammon, 2010 http://imgfave.com/search/soapbox%20speech I am going to start out by saying that some people might...
Negotiations, what should be discussed
Negotiation is a basic concept, which you usually hear in a professional setting. According to the dictionary negotiation is the act of...
BDSM Terms 101 : Part 3
There is a distinct difference between the way different people view labels. This is common place because no 2 people are the same so the...
BDSM Terms 101: Part 2
With my last post, I talked about terms that have more solid meanings. In this post, I will cover some more which have a set definition...
BDSM Terms 101 - Part 1
I am sure that I have used some terms with which you may not be familiar with. While you could just look them up online, I would like to...


Sex Toy Safety
In talking with a friend I came to realize that there are too many people that do not know safety when it comes to sex toys. Everyone can...
Starting out in the offline community
While there are great online sources, which you can find in this post, nothing is as good as in person learning. So where do you start?...
So you are new to the online fetish community/Fetlife: What to take into consideration
Let me start out by saying a big WELCOME. We all have different things that brought us to this place in our lives. Some people have...